Obama vs. McCain * Liberal vs. Conservative

Eagles vs. Cowboys * Yankees vs. Red Sox

Not all of us share the same social, political or personal views, but that does not mean people with opposing opinions cannot live together peacefully. There is no need to tone down your passions, however trivial the subject matter may seem, just learn to respectfully co-exist. And you can ward off conflict and rivalry between you and your roommate(s) by following some of the tips below:

Agree to Disagree

First things first, you need to understand and respect that your roommate’s view is not wrong, just different. Your roommate probably feels the same aggravation you do, so agree to disagree! Do not let differences in opinion get in the way of your relationship by belittling their convictions.

Convert Control

When you believe something with strong conviction, it is often your tendency to urge others to feel the same. Do not try and convert your roommate into believing the same as you do, which will often trigger hurtful arguments and defensive reactions.

Going Mad

Do not let your roommate’s convictions drive you crazy either. Although you are making an effort to be respectful about your own beliefs, your outspoken roommate may not be so privy. Try to openly discuss your feelings of aggravation or defensiveness when such interactions take place.

Victory Dance

Make mindful decisions of when and where you celebrate the success of your political party, sports team, etc. Resist the urge to be boastful of your team’s victories when it will undoubtedly cause strife; there is a fine line between being playful and hurtful.

Home Advertising

Keep your campaign magnets, flyers, banners and posters displayed in your own bedroom. Be aware of shared space being neutral territory. Neither you nor your roommate should have to be bothered or anxious by looking at opposing advertising while in the comfort of home.

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Whether you are married, dating, friends, family or just acquaintances, respecting the opinions of your roommates will allow your relationships to grow and your home to be at peace. Please share any tips you have on living with someone who you have trouble agreeing with!